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I spent much of yesterday being very self-indulgent, wandering around the city buying things like fancy paper and a cheap but splendid blue and green skirt. And met up with a subset of my knitting group in the Waterstones café, where the three of us spent quite a bit of time surreptitiously eyeing the rather fancy sweater being sported by a quiet chap who had moved table so we could sit together. His shoulders/sleeves were bright stripes, the rest of the garment being a pleasing soft grey, and we would have liked to interrogate him about it but thought that might be a bit much.

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Exciting developments along the Daughter's Wedding front, as I went with Bun and her three bridesmaids to start dress shopping on Friday. I drove, in fact, as one bridesmaid was coming from Hertfordshire and the other two, as well as Bun and myself, from Norwich. Entire trip was completed well within one batteryload, so both environmentally friendly and cheap! We went to Newmarket, whither I had never been before, to a nice little dress shop that looked like a converted house but was well provided with customer parking. It may seem odd to go to Newmarket, when Norwich is knee-deep in bridal stores, but Norwich is a long way from everywhere else, and it was kinder to the Hertfordshire bridesmaid!

I was quite surprised by Bun's initial choices. Tea length I did expect, as the nuptials will feature ballroom dancing, but I am sure we had a conversation years ago about how she liked lace but abhorred glitter. These were sparkly dresses! Sparkly dresses with extra sparkle!

Anyway. We four sat in a row while Bun was helped into a succession of lovely dresses on the other side of a massive curtain. No traipsing through the store to stand on a platform, it was efficient, friendly and somehow pleasantly informal. There were even Ferraro Rochers for us, which I thought was brave, with all those nearly-white dresses so close!

Half a dozen tea lengths later she picked her favourite of those (lace-free) and went on to some long dresses. Even trying on a long-sleeved one which the bridesmaids had decided she ought to try, despite her expression when it was presented to her. It did look nice—given that she is a well-shaped, fairly slender 5'9", this is not surprising—but not for her. In any case, she had The Dress right there.

Well. It wasn't precisely an 'everybody bursts into tears' moment (my eyes were prickling but they do that a lot, these days), but The Dress made her look like a goddess, and it was perfectly clear from her face that she loved it. It was definitely a that's so YOU dress. It was, inevitably, the most expensive she tried on, though the attendant-dresser-saleswoman instantly offered to knock £150 off the price, which was nice. So we bore it back to the car in triumph and went off for a burger. The dress will need a modest amount of alteration—slight shortening of the straps, and something doing to hitch up the train so that she can dance. And hemming, of course. Essentially it fits beautifully.

Awwww.

So, a very satisfactory day, and since the bridesmaids all agreed over lunch that the dress one of them had suggested looked like an excellent option, that seems to be sorted as well, bar the actual purchasing. A most satisfactory day.

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Next up, my outfit. Gibber. I am neither 5'9" nor slender, so it will be a tiresome process unless I get very lucky.
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Dear me, somehow my Reddit feed is full of posts by young women who apparently have no personal taste. Asking which wedding dress they should choose, or which engagement ring, or which wedding ring goes with their engagement ring. Sigh. Girls! It's your body, your hand. It should be dressed according to your taste, not mine! (Especially when your taste involves something that looks like fancy underwear with draperies, or has those sad, drooping sleeves.)

I mean. I suppose it's most likely "I wanna make a post and be given lots of attention" more than "I dunno what I want", but it's irritating.

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Went to a rather sweet birthday party yesterday evening. Quite a lot of potential guests have been stricken with the current lurgi and had to cancel, but there were enough of us to have a good time. There were members of all three of the choruses, just about enough to put on somewhat unbalanced mini-choruses. And my quartet managed a couple of songs, and I sang "I Won't Mind" which everybody thought was a lovely song, because it is. And I think the Birthday Celebrant had a good time. Very friendly and family-oriented. Although it was in the Middle Of Nowhere, Norfolk, and involved a long and entirely dark stretch of single-track road. Bleah.

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We had our coaching evening with Deke Sharon on Tuesday, an experience generally enjoyed by all. It's not that the message of Emotion Is Thing To Communicate has not been put across before, it has, but somehow he managed to make that connection for most of the chorus, and it worked! They (I, still struggling with a cold, observed and wrote stuff down) sang A Million Dreams, and the first time through, the tension was *huge*! By the fourth repetition, though, it brought tears to my eyes and my Beast's. (Beast, and a handful of others from the men's chorus, took advantage of the invitation to come and watch.)

Deke is quite a showman, and was very entertaining. It was not an intense, information-rich session, but the message that got through really did make a difference to the singing. Most interestingly, the chorus sang better without the MD.... obviously it takes a lot of work to be able to get to that point, but once we can sing with our MD joining the singers, we should. Anyway. A very worthwhile experience. And Deke was awarded a pot of Colman's Mustard, of course.

Also, he started off by saying, "Judging Art is fundamentally stupid." Go Deke!

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